You’re starting a business, you must be crazy that’s so risky! You want to start a business, how much risk can you take? You’ve got to be nuts to quit your job and start a business, why take the risk?
Ever heard these kinds of comments from others, either about business or any aspect of your life. It usually goes like this
YOU: I’m thinking about doing ________.
THEM: What? Man, I wouldn’t do that if I were you, just too risky!
Whatever the topic may be, from starting a business, to wearing white after labor day, others are quick to give you advice about what you should do that is largely a part of what they perceive to be “safe” or “risky” behavior.
That Pesky Four Letter Word
Risk, or the perception of risk, has probably kept you from doing quite a bit in your life, I know it has mine. More often than not, this perception has been shaped by what others have told you is risky, and coming from trusted confidants you’ve probably believed them.
It doesn’t take much to be high on an idea one minute, and have somebody smash our dreams the next by using that little four letter word – R.I.S.K
But here’s the little secret about risk that nobody has ever told you…
Risk Is Relative
That’s right, risk is completely relative. So when somebody tells you that you shouldn’t do what you want to do because it’s too risky, what they really mean is that it is risky relative to their situation, their own biases, or outlook.
Risky or Safe, You Tell Me?
Ever seen footage of the guys who do free climbing? I’m talking about the people who set off up the face of a 1000 foot shear cliff, with no ropes, no safety harness, and only their feet and hands to keep them from plummeting to their death? If you’re like me you say to yourself “Wow, that’s risky!”
But, to the free climber who’s been doing it for 30 years, learned how to climb a rock face before they could walk, and have 1000’s of hours of climbing under their belt – ascending that mountain is safer than driving in a car, flying in an airplane, or riding a roller coaster at the fair. Activities that you or me probably think of as fairly safe.
When NASCAR star Jeff Gordon flies around the race track at 170 miles per hour, that looks pretty risky. But as one of the best drivers ever, and with years of practice under his belt, driving that track is about as risky as me walking my dog.
What Does This Mean To You?
Simply put – you define your own risk. Your background, personality, expertise, education, and essentially everything that makes you goes into what is risky for yourself!
When people tell you something is too risky, they are saying that it is too risky for them. Given their makeup, their situation, they wouldn’t try it. But what does that have to do with you? Nothing!
This goes for business as well as life. Risk is relative, don’t accept someone else’s risk profile for you, or live a life based on what others think is risky.
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When people tell you something is too risky, they are saying that it is too risky for them. Given their makeup, their situation, they wouldn’t try it. But what does that have to do with you? Nothing!
Very well said, Matt!! Glad to see you sharing your wisdom – I’ve missed you!
i definitely have to come back and read this post watched the clip at the end and omg it was unbelievable doing 400ft with no support or anything goodness.
Hey Matt,
I agree with Michele. Risk is a personal perspective thing – The ex had no problem letting the learner’s permit teenager drive around with my daughter in the car on an icy day. I had a heart attack and she didn’t see an issue. Oy.
George
@Michele
Thanks! Yeah, I actually had to do some work lately, but now I’m back to the cozy confines of the blog for a while!
Matt
@Josten
Pretty crazy huh? Risky for me, but probably not him.
Matt
@George
Great example – what’s unthinkinkable for one person could be a non-event for another.
Matt
@Matt: Yay! Glad to have you back!
@George: Ouch! And I’m on your side with that. Sheesh!!!! Glad everything worked out and they were safe. Phew!
But as one of the best drivers ever, and with years of practice under his belt, driving that track is about as risky as me walking my dog.
I don’t really agree on this one since there are horrible accidents and people gets killed doing it. Formula one, for an example, not only Nascar. With that said I do agree that to many people miss out on a lot in life simply because it is “risky”.
This was a great article and a fantastic video!
I’d never really thought about it that way, it is relative. It doesn’t really matter how “risky” someone perceives it.. if they have genuine points about your business plan etc…, then obviously its worth listening to that (such as you’ve seriously underestimated a cost for example). Learn to listen to objective points of view, not subjective points of view.
It’s funny because people tell me this about skydiving all the time. What are you nuts? Why would you do that? But the truth is for us who are properly trained and experienced, it’s not any more dangerous than driving a car down the interstate. So your point is spot on about risk being relative and different risk thresholds and risk profiles.
Also I’ll add one additional point. Anything in life worth having requires a certain element of risk taking, that may put you outside of your comfort zone. Risk in relationship, risk in business. you name it. So sometimes in order to have the good things that life has to offer, it helps to challenge yourself and take some risk, that put you slightly outside of your comfort zone. Then most will find with intelligently calculated risk also comes rewards, often times in great abundance.
@Stephen
Wasn’t that video was crazy! I had no idea they did free climbing for SPEED, takes it another level.
Matt
@Magnifying
You nailed it – the real difference is learning to listen to objective, not subjective points of view.
Thanks for coming by,
Matt